Preparing Your Child for Their First Day at Daycare
The first day of daycare is a significant milestone — for both children and parents. It's normal to feel a mix of excitement and anxiety. With the right preparation, you can set your child up for a smooth, positive transition.
Start with a Positive Mindset
Children pick up on their parents' emotions. If you approach daycare with enthusiasm and confidence, your child will too. Talk about daycare in an excited, positive way. Visit the center together before the first day so the environment feels familiar.
Pro Tip
Read books about starting daycare together. Stories like "The Kissing Hand" by Audrey Penn help children understand and feel excited about the new adventure.
Establish Routines Early
Start adjusting your child's sleep schedule at least a week before daycare begins. A well-rested child handles new experiences much better. Practice the morning routine — waking up, eating breakfast, getting dressed — so it feels natural by day one.
Pack a Comfort Kit
Send familiar items that remind your child of home:
- A favorite stuffed animal or blanket for rest time
- Family photos to keep in their cubby
- A special morning snack they love
- Extra clothes (trust us, you'll need them!)
- A comforting note or small token from home
Create a Goodbye Ritual
A consistent, brief goodbye ritual helps children feel secure. A special handshake, a hug and a kiss, and a cheerful "See you after rest time!" followed by a confident exit works well. Prolonged goodbyes often increase anxiety for both of you.
Remember
Our teachers will comfort your child as soon as you leave. Most children stop crying within minutes of their parent's departure and go on to have a wonderful day.
Trust the Process
It's common for children to cry at drop-off even after they've been attending for weeks. This is a normal part of separation — not a sign that they're unhappy at daycare. Most children settle within minutes and enjoy their day. You'll receive updates and photos throughout the day to ease your mind.